If you look at all aspects of your life, are you living by your definitions, desires, values, and identification? How often do you choose to behave, dress, purchase, or do (or not do) something because someone else wants that for you or to fit in? What do you give up in yourself to do that? If you lived your life in a way that truly represents you, how would it look? We all conform to laws and various societal constraints to maintain a safe, sane, and consensual world. We can examine where we can express and live our lives within that framework so as to better express who we truly wish to be.
Some things to consider:
Do you know what you want?Do your preferences conform to the expectations of your friends, family, or partner instead of your own?Can you make a ch...